Thanks @Gaurav, @Wrangeld, @Jeepie and @Ale Vallecchi for the all the support during the stucks and refusals. I did learn and take back with me a few pointers that day.
Thanks everyone else on the drive for being patient ... hope my stucks didnt take a toll on your experience.
i did join a few offroad clubs but never went on a drive with them... from the beginning i didnt feel commitment to people and vehicle safety like i felt with carnity. Going by the advise i recieved right from the starting point to those during stucks and varying levels of tugs my car recieved keeping in mind safety; it reaffirmed my decision to drive and learn from the carnity team as this team really walks the talk.
It was a lot of fun and looking forward to many more drives. Cheers!