The age of the engine is not so important as is its condition with respect to clearances. If you get a new engine with in-spec clearances, using thicker oil might actually be detrimental during cold starts, since the thicker oil is much more difficult to pump around the engine.
In your case, it is difficult to say what caused the big clearances, but as per your above post, it makes sense the engine would have died while driving slowly- when it was on the verge of failing anyway.
When you were dune bashing, the engine was running at high speeds, which helped to keep the oil pressure up. When you were driving at lower engine speeds, the lower engine speed could not keep up the oil pressure, causing the loss of lubrication.
This engine was on the point of blowing up anyway, and it could have happened on your way to the office, or shops, or anywhere- it is just coincidence that it blew up after a dune bashing session.