lol..ok lets put it this way, would you marry a woman who was beautiful, voluptuous charming, great personality, wicked sense of humour, interesting and whenever you looked at her you smiled but every once in a while, got upset and sometimes even angry and just wanted some TLC from you.
Or someone, who was bland looking, boring, was as charming as a door knob, did what she was told, but never got upset or angry and you could go on business trips on months and didnt have to worry about her, not even call her to check up on her if she was doing fine because you knew she was. Knew even if you didnt see or talk to her to a year she wasn't going any where because she was a loyal and "reliable"